Posted by Gerard on December 17, 1998 at 11:09:25:
In Reply to: Young chefs and the struggle for respect... posted by Glenn Messick on December 16, 1998 at 12:44:28:
: I also feel at times that I am seen as inferior purely >>
Hmmm, I don't think you can feel perspective others have, you're talking about how you 'feel' (happy/sad/mad/glad) and need to stick to thinking.
Emotions can take you all over the place and run you up a flagpole , whilst your perception might be correct its more likely your interpretation is wrong.
Often when people don't feel accepted they aren't aware they are pushing too hard.